Monday, October 19, 2009 10/19/2009 10:33:00 PM
lesson no. 54- 现实的人面让人作呕，hypocritical faces
They always say that the working world is full of dangers because they will betray you for their own benefits and back stab you when you least expect.
Oh well, you don't have to wait till you're in the working world, because now at tertiary education level, i've already feel it and sort of experienced it. I'm not going to name and names here because i hope that who ever reads ( no body would read of course) this post would think of their actions and not do that to others if they do not wish others to repay them the same way.
Or probably you can say that i'm sensitive. i tend to think people are capricious and full of motives.
Too many events of such kind happened to my dad. so i learnt that i shouldnt be too nice to people. people may be nice to you, but not totally. like someone i know, he(she) may be nice, but when it comes to teaching, there are some reserves.
For me, i know people are nt that nice.. so instead of teaching them all that i know, i reserve some of it. unless i know that person is someone i can trust.. and someone who will help me back when i need the help, i'll of course help that person. I'm someone who likes to 'teach' people what i know.. it gives me confidence. :D So it's good that a stone can kill two birds.
Getting help from you and not giving back the help you need is soemthing that's not good and in front of you smile and pretend to help you when you need help. This is hypocritical act. i dun like it at all!!!
The older we get, the wary are we against people whom we just know. Unlike when we wre young...like secondary school, there is no high level of guardedness. we are just like that as friends happily laughing at each other and so on... (although sometimes i dun feel that way.. becos it's just me).
ok.. after reading the above, probably you find it confusing. what is the lesson here? what'st he aim of this post?? Becos i dragged for quite a few days before i finish this, the idea might have lost..
but overall, don't give in and dun believe hypocrites.. how do we know?? just be wary at all times.