Monday, November 2, 2009 11/02/2009 01:10:00 AM
lesson #59--He's just NOT that into You
Social relationship is terribly difficult to understand. To think i have to consult this book called
"He's Just Not That Into You"
my friend forward the pdf version and after reading it. it talks about the signs of how men and women think, which i personally thinks it's quite interesting to know what the opposite sex is thinking about.
So i referred to the chapter of 'hes not into u because he doesnt call you'
yeah.. read abit and maybe we're giving ourselves too much assumption... we come up with naiive excuse to make ourselves happy. like he doesnt call me because he is busy.
"we are the rule, not the exception."For me, i had that thought passing my mind but after a short discussion with D, i realized that i should not even have that kind of thought. i should know what's good and what's not good for me.
I don't want to be a dumb girl waiting in silliness for a 'dream man'. i'll love myself.
That guy V may be the most excellent guy i've come across but, if i were to put my perspective into his, i'll probably not settle for 1 girl only. i'll be searching for more so i have choices i can choose from. That explains the reason why there's no call. yeap... so he's just not that into me afterall.
plus, it's too good to be true to meet someone of his quality.
i guess i shall refocus my life. my life would be just work.. r/s... let nature takes its course.