Sunday, November 1, 2009 11/01/2009 01:49:00 AM
lesson #58--an encapsulation of life
i think today's the happiest day in my life. Although it's a short night, it had beeen a wonderful night. A bit awkward at certain times but overall i'll give a 75% distinction to tonight's first meet up/date if u would like to call.
Yes, tonight is 'The Day'. Met up with this guy from Okcupid and he looked really attractive in person as compared to the photos. I think i was drawn to him from the moment when i looked up from the directory at raffles city. I'm not sure about him. He looked at me for a few secs though as in he's thinking of something. LIke analysing?? i dunno! don't want to jump to any conclusion. So he suggest that we go down to check out the food.. I said Ding Tai Fung is a place i've longed to go and eat. Total spending on vege dumpling noodle, his i dunno what noodles and xiao long bao was $30. +.
Nice food and nice convo. talked about Da Vinci Code, Christianity, philosophy of life...Hero and Fringe, action movies... then... to speaking in front of a crowd... leadership.. and I talked about Isa, yes the president of my sc as an example of a born leader. wahh!!! i still.. admires him though. haha!
So we talked from abt 845 plus to 10, the closing time. haha! we're 'chased' out and he suggested that we go Esplanade to walk. At this point of time, i think he enjoyed my company..and i enjoyed his too because there werent much weird feelings of.. e.g embarrassment or what... and he even suggested to have a walk! So it's like a nice mutual feeling. If not, he could have suggested things like,
' so anywhere you want to go?', or ' going home after this??' or ' great dinner...'
that would be such a turn off.. and a sign to tell us that, ok! this guy doesnt worth my time and i guess i ain't that attractive in the way i talk or look..or both...
Or even if he does not say that, and he keeps looking at his watch.. or looked impatient, that's it.. you can zao.
But for him... i think he's such a good listener despite my bad fluency in english... he listened and nodded... and looked me in the eyes when we speak.. i think that's such a great characteristic! To be able to lend ur attention to someone when someone is speaking.
I'm not sure if it's me or what but he exudes different kind of 眼神 during our talks. there's like, excited eyes, dreamy eyes, agreeing (ya lo) eyes and hmm what else?? lol! i guess those were like the more prominent ones. haha!
like we all said, the eyes are the windows to one's soul. I like how he act and laugh when he was amused.
Ya, so we went to Esplanade's 1st level and went to the riverside.. it's my first time though to the riverside..and there were halloween at the pub. oh btw, HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! then there's Wayang performance also.. so we stood near the river and the performance area to chat.
We talked about clubbing.. gay club, drinking and friends of his are poor drinkers at unusual times. then we talked about or rather, i talked about clubbing and me being conservative, then to life in general.. then to the integrated resort. blah blah..
There was a lot of laughters.. really nice. plus there were not much bright lightings, so it's a not-so-dark ambience to look at each other. For a couple of times, i saw his eye while i was talking abt my life... and he looked dreamy. hahaha!!! maybe he's tired.. but it could be of the expression of 'ah.. i see.... ok ok...yalo.. life's like that'
hahahaa!!! it's my interpretation la... dunno abt him. So we decided to go and find a place to sit... he said he's tired.. i asked if it's from standing too long.. he said yeah.. den replied, mine's high heels even worst right??
what i actually meant was that.. i dun even feel a tinge of tiredness! lol! and he said, ya.. that's why i think for u mah.. (i think he said that... or something along that line) so sweet!
so we sat down, had drinks and kaya toast... chat again... about driving.. malaysia.. food.. taxis.. my cow accident.. blah blah.. and it was 12am already...
Time flies seriously.. esp when i'm chatting with someone so much and plus laughter speeds everything up! Although i didnt really like the way i spoke tonight, i like the ideas behind the replies i gave though.. haha. at least it sets him thinking and have another perspective of life through me. MUAHAHAHA!
oh ya.. at the restaurant, a couple of times i dunno what to say?? so i anyhow whack an answer.. and that's how we moved from da vinci to speaking skills.. wth? i'm terrible.. :(:(:(
But i seriously enjoyed his company... plus a beautiful pair of eyes to add sparkles to the star studded night. a beautiful night indeed.
oh btw, I wore heels tonight and i was taller than him. hoho! he's 170. matured looking and great personality. oh oh.. from his talks, i gather that he saves alot of money.. goes bali. goes hk.. bangkok.. walao.. so rich. haha! oh and he was from AJC! *drools* smart!!!
oh oh.. here comes the beautiful ending of this post... short smses between him and me.
V: Hey nice meeting you tonight. Time really flies with you. Oh...and you look more gorgeous in person than your profile pics :-)
me: :) same here, I really enjoy talking to u! its been a while since ive met some1 whom i can click w. thank u so much 4 tht compliment! u look great too in person.
V: So the feeling's mutual? great :-) I've just reached home
Me: haha! ^_^ Oh, so u sped? lol. that's fast!
V: No la, normal speed limits. :) it's not far from my place
Me: Haha! i see. All righty then, have a good shower and a good night sleep! I'm so going to blog about tonight's great experience. :D
V: I'm not sleeping so soon, I'm still feelin a bit fresh, maybe i'll do some report frist. Could be from the tea i drank also... Now you're making me even more curious about your blog
Me: hmm yeah. am nt feeling sleepy too. :) haha! u shld be able to guess e contents as well since u went thru wht i went thru just nw. haha!
V: Well said...Hmmm, Still not letting me see the blog ah?
Me: hahaha! hmmm maybe. my blog has no pic/posts tht r dedicated to a certain theme. its abt how i feel of things? so it's like exposing my inner feeling to u? so nt now :P
V: hmmm... so like an online diary..k la, no problem.
good night whoever's reading this. :D