Saturday, April 4, 2009 4/04/2009 11:49:00 PM
lesson no. 18- sometimes, it's good not to take people's word seriously
Seriously! taking pple seriously is kinda bad thing. My friend said we'll still be friends but it seems that it's not. I'm not sad or angry with my friend but, perhaps this is other pple's style of not wanting to be frens with you? was kinda disappointed. but oh well, let's just say i still got tons of pple out there waiting for me to be their friend.. or to be my friend?? there's a difference you know?
but of course, from my style of making friends, my lifestyle, my etc... i'm most likely the former one.
perhaps you may suggest or stab me with a qn like, have you thought abt the prob why they dun want to be friends with you?
oh yes, often. and i always regret why i speak without thinking of consequences and planning first. oh well, the things i do are also rather very rash. damn it. like my hp, i bought it at a foolish moment. i was blinded.. RRrrRRR my frens fone, samsung pixcon?? had almost all the features i love. looking back at my fone, i feel so cheated. all becos i listen to somebody's stupid words... see.. i took them seriously...when they are just as foolish as well in recommending me that!
so never take anyone's words seriously at the first time..
I guess we'll just live life with lotsa laughter. laugh your embarassment away and laugh your worries and sadness away.
sigh.
just like my fren i met her today at alumni. She likes to laugh at little things... and becos of this, PLUS her style of dressing, lifestyle, and looks and many others( of which i do not wish to talk further becos i'll feel even more inferior) she got herself being very well-liked.
she's the apple in the eyes of many male teachers.. like mr Philip Tan, and now her so-called God father...which is her teacher in her school. she went to have lunch with her GF and GF's friend.. how perfect is that? it's like going to meet new people.....widening of social circle...and increasing the chance for herself to be exposed to potential bfs. lol!!
oh well, she's pretty of course, i cant be compared to her.
ok, i'm steering away again.. and yes just take everything not that seriously...nitty gritty stuff that is. if it's impt stuff.. like documents, project and all.. you need to be serious,of course!
work first and self maintainance first!
Family first.
relationship second.